I have had this discussion with my wife about the rfifedent ways that men and women find sexual stimulation in media.she adamently disagrees that romance novels and soaps and chick-flicks are pornographic at all….even though some of the books she has provided for her daughter are graphic enough to make a sailor blush.as a small “f” feminist (not entirely hostile toward men) she takes the victimisation stance on pornography and that the forms of exhibitionism seen in these films stem from sexual abuse, which i tend to agree with and can certainly see her position.in many of the chick flicks, romance novels and so on, the women are much more clearly in control if not outright manipulative, and maybe that`s why there is a “it`s not porn” position amongst women, even if there is a substantially graphic nature to many of the sexual aspects in those media.and we know how women like to be in control….
I have had this discussion with my wife about the rfifedent ways that men and women find sexual stimulation in media.she adamently disagrees that romance novels and soaps and chick-flicks are pornographic at all….even though some of the books she has provided for her daughter are graphic enough to make a sailor blush.as a small “f” feminist (not entirely hostile toward men) she takes the victimisation stance on pornography and that the forms of exhibitionism seen in these films stem from sexual abuse, which i tend to agree with and can certainly see her position.in many of the chick flicks, romance novels and so on, the women are much more clearly in control if not outright manipulative, and maybe that`s why there is a “it`s not porn” position amongst women, even if there is a substantially graphic nature to many of the sexual aspects in those media.and we know how women like to be in control….