Your First Threesome - The Only In-Depth Guide You’ll Need
Your First Threesome - The Only In-Depth Guide You’ll Need
Having a threesome is possibly the most popular sexual fantasy out there, for both men and women. Even though you probably won’t hear people say it, believe me when I say that every third person has a fantasy of being in bed with two more people. Men usually admit they have this fantasy, but girls are also very kinky and you’d be surprised how many girls would actually have a threesome if they had a chance. It’s still pretty taboo and out of scarcity, they miss their opportunity to have one of their wildest fantasies come true.
I’ve personally had a threesome once, and it was completely by accident. My girlfriend and I were at home and we had a mutual friend come over. It was the weekend so we all had a few drinks while having a good time. We were still pretty young, in our early twenties and we played a game of truth and dare. After a short while, the questions and dares were all regarding sex and kinky fantasies. I dared our friend to kiss my girlfriend and she did it without hesitation. The kiss lasted longer than what I expected and I knew at that moment that something was about to happen. I slowly joined them and before I knew it, we were all naked in bed!
A thousand thoughts were racing through my mind, especially because the threesome was completely unexpected and because it was the first time something like that happened to me. Thankfully, I took things slowly and didn’t give in to my selfishness and I got to having sex with both of them. If I let my guard down and did what I thought about doing, I would’ve finished way too soon to even call it a threesome! We repeated this a couple more times after and every time we had a threesome it was better and better for all of us! There are a few things that helped me last longer with two girls and after that wild experience, I decided to make an in-depth guide to threesomes!
Choose What Format Of A Threesome You’ll Feel Most Comfortable With
With same-sex threesomes (even though they’re fairly uncommon), it’s easy because all participants are attracted to each other. When it comes to a male-male-female or a male-female-female threesome, it’s a bit more difficult to achieve all-around attraction. When one person needs to satisfy two people at the same time, everything can get pretty complicated.
If you’ve decided to engage in a threesome with your partner, make sure you’re both on the same page when it comes to the decision whether a man or a woman will join you. If you and your partner can’t decide who to invite, it’s better not to have a threesome instead of having one that you won’t enjoy. Imagine another man besides you satisfying your girlfriend or another woman on top of your boyfriend. If you don’t get aroused by the idea or you feel jealous even a tiny bit, chances are you won’t enjoy the threesome as much as you think. If you and your partner have the same idea about the threesome, and you get aroused by the same idea when it comes to the third person, chances are you’ll enjoy it very much.
On the other hand, if you’re single, you can do whatever you want. If you’re a guy and looking for two girls to satisfy you at the same time, you can check out some escort directories and find girls in your area who offer this type of service. London is the place where you can find the largest number of kinky, sexy escorts so if you find girls you like, be sure to check escortrankings.uk and read about more personal experiences people had with the escorts you’re interested in hiring to fulfil your fantasies.
When it comes to threesomes, you should never ever make your partner do something they don’t want to do. If you can agree on who to invite for your threesome, it’s better not to have it than to force something and make you or your partner suffer during the threesome. There are a lot of different sex toys you can use to make it feel like you’re in a threesome - all you need is imagination!
It’s Never A Good Idea To Invite A Friend To The Mix
When it comes to threesomes, the first thing that comes to mind is who to call to join you. If it’s your first rodeo, you’ll definitely think about some of your friends or acquaintances because you’ll want someone you know.
This is a beginner’s mistake and you should never ask anyone you know to join you in fulfilling your dirty fantasy. It’s not about whether you’ll have a good time or not - it’s about what will happen after it’s all over.
A huge number of great friendships ended with sex and it’s very likely yours will end too if you decide to have sex with your best (or good) friend you see on a regular basis. A ton of things can go wrong and just looking them in the eye the day after can be very awkward. Exactly because of this, threesomes with a friend don’t work as well as you’d think.
Hire A Professional If You Want The Best Experience
Many couples, as well as singles, decide on hiring a professional when it comes to threesomes. In my personal opinion, it is the best way to make sure you’ll have a good time without the awkwardness the day after. As I said before, my girlfriend and I had a threesome with one of our friends, but after a couple of times, we started distancing and now we don’t even call each other anymore. It was all so sudden and at the moment, I wasn’t thinking about the consequences of our actions. Now, when I think about it, I know it would have been much better if we hired a professional who would make sure we were both sexually satisfied.
We already found an escort we’ll call soon and to be honest, it wasn’t the easiest task we did. We went through a lot of escort sites, but only after coming across a few UK escort reviews about one particular girl we both liked, we decided she would be the one we’ll call.
One of my close friends told me he found a girl on a sugar daddy dating site and that he is more than satisfied with that arrangement. Even though he is married, his wife is really blown away! Not only do they have an amazing sex life, but she even gets along with the girl outside the bedroom.
Define a Safeword, Rules and Boundaries
Whether you’re looking for a threesome as a couple or single, you should always determine the rules of play before engaging in your fantasy. A threesome can get really steamy very fast and sticking to the rules will make sure you’ll have a great time.
If you’re looking for a third person, you and your partner should go over things that are prohibited and which are allowed. Some people don’t have a problem with seeing their partner have sex with another person, but they get incredibly jealous if they see them kissing someone else.
Go through the rules with your partner which include blowjobs, fingering, certain sexual activities (like kissing), oral, anal, double penetration and anything you can think of. One thing should always be a top priority and it is safety! Not under any circumstance should anyone engage in the threesome without wearing a condom!
A Threesome Is All About Sex. No Emotions Should Be Involved
When you decide to have a threesome, you should know that you won’t get all the attention, no matter what. It’s a threesome and every person should get equally satisfied! Even if you’re in a relationship and you brought a third person to the mix, you shouldn’t act as a couple because the third person will feel like he or she shouldn’t even be there.
Even if you notice your partner is enjoying sex with the third person, you shouldn’t get jealous. You can go to the bathroom, freshen up or just take a breather and not feel like you’re missing out. Once you get back, don’t expect that they will be waiting for you. You might find them in the middle of a blowjob or anything that would slow down the action, but they definitely won’t be sitting there waiting for you to come back. That’s why it’s very important to disconnect all emotions when you’re having a threesome, especially with your partner and a third person.
